Monday, November 10, 2008

Lucky Girl...

This is suppose to be all about Grace but I too am a lucky girl. How about Grace's gift idea for me? I was SO impressed with her on that post-big words and a huge idea for a 8 year old. I thought her tutor was fabulous but now I am convinced! :) I was totally surprised. I actually was weired out when I saw there was a new post. I knew I hadn't done it and didn't know that D had at that point. As I read it, I went from panic that my little girls blog had been hijacked by a weirdo to complete shock - the REALLY good kind. My hubby is the best and so full of surprises- I am a lucky girl! I find it incredible that he still likes me so much. He has seen all my moods and not all of them are nice, I assure you! So glad he asked me to dance, that is how it all got started, and so glad he followed it up with a marriage proposal three years later. He literally had me from hello!

Fast forward 16.5 yrs from him asking me to boot scoot around the dance floor and here we are today. We had a really busy week celebrating birthdays last week, Caroline, Grace and my mom were all birthday girls. Judd is a little confused about having to wait till March for his since both girls got to have theirs. I want him to stay 3 forever so March seems too soon for me. Anyways, Grace is still doing really well with the trach. Speech is making some improvement although it is hard for us to measure since we understood so much prior to the surgery. We call it Grace-enese - it's our second language. Certainly a stronger voice and in isolation she can make much clearer letter sounds it is just the conversational speech that is harder to evaluate and measure. We had a follow up with the ENT last week and got a great report. We are trying to get a sleep study sooner than the next available, which is March, to get an assessment of her breathing while she sleeps. If all is well and the report shows we are back at baseline we can get the trach out. I am confident it will be out as soon as we have our sleep study. We are hoping to get in done sooner at another hospital or get moved up via a cancellation at TCH. It seems ridiculous to keep it in for 4 months just waiting on a time slot for the test.

Our schedule is so full with therapies, I am not sure how we could have stayed in school. The home bound schooling has been great. It allows us time for all the rehab stuff that she needs without all the time restrictions. Her spirits have been much better the last few days, remember she has been celebrating and that seems to be when she is at her best! The last 4 nights she has run a fever during the night but is fine during the day even without Tylenol so that is a little mysterious. Did you know that when you run a fever your heart rate is higher? It's a new nugget of information for me so I thought I would share. I hope it is nothing but it is a little strange. Being that I am not really into mysteries I hope it goes away tonight.

My computer needs some time at the techy hospital before I can post my recent photos. I do have some fun ones to add so just know the pictures are "in the mail".

7 comments:

Cahills said...

Ah, I see Grace gets her writing skills from her mommy. Who knew - 8-year old literary genius. Did Gracie Doogie Howser call (s.p.?)? So excited about the bike parade - I laugh out loud everytime I think about it. It's the ultimate GONG SHOW. LOVE IT!! Cannot wait to hang week of Thanksgiving. So excited for the cruise. "D" needs to patent his formula as pimpest husband on the planet!!!! :) Love, love, love the Roths!!!!

Cassidy said...

I hope the computer is fixed soon. I want to see the Birthday girl celebration pictures! Oh, found a cord. Thanks for your bloggy love! Grace good to see you the other day!!

Anonymous said...

Grace,
Luck must run in your family! You to have such great parents and them to have you. And, I often think of myself lucky too! Lucky to also have a wonderful husband (we have similar meeting/relationship circumstances!) and to have wonderful children like your mom and dad have. And, to have a friend like you mommy that is such an inspiration and so willing to share you and your story. Thanks for all of that! Love ya and keep up the good work!

Suzanne

Anonymous said...

Wow, I missed a few days and after reading Grace's sweet message and then Mommy's...well, just pass the kleenex!! God bless you for your diligence in just living each day as it comes and I might add living it to the fullest! There are wonderful things on the horizons...improved speech, freedom from trach, just having each other...the best of all. I agree with Grace, her mom ROCKS!! Dad ain't no slacker either!! Much love, Alena Phillips

Danel said...

Hey Gracie-
We missed you today at class. I hope you can make it back next week. We will see you this weekend for sure :)

Anonymous said...

Hey Gracie! One of your PCU nurses wanted to drop by and say you are a beautiful girl, and I hope you have a very Happy Thanksgiving and Merry Christmas with your family...God bless!

Sincerely, Caterina

Anonymous said...

Sunday afternoon, Dec. 14th.
Hi Grace,
Just in case you check your computer, I want you to know that Aunt Darlene still loves you.
All the ladies in my Sunday School
Class are praying for you, while you spend tonight in the Hospital.
Let me know when you get the test
results back. Remember Jesus loves you, and so does all your
family and friends.
Stay Sweet,
Aunt Darlene